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    Question How do you get over someone?

    So I just went through a somewhat nasty breakup recently (won't go into details) but I was wondering, how do you guys (and girls) get over your exes and move on? What do you guys do that helps you keep your mind off things?

    In time all due things come to pass but in the meantime, what helps you? Any particular activities? Aside from the obvious like sleeping it off, drinking, smoking, partying, etc. I've been contemplating pulling more hours at my second job to keep my mind occupied and to make extra money.

    I'd like to keep this discussion on a serious level, if possible. If you're gonna turn this thread into a train wreck, I'm just gonna delete posts as I see fit.

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    Ive been wanting to do a roadtrip for a long time. Thats what I did to get away from the base as much as possible when i was in. See new places, jam out to good music.
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    I've got a week's worth of vacation coming up in July. Might start looking at tickets to NYC or LA. Hell, maybe a trip to Costa Rica or something. I think getting away from it all might play a huge factor in forgetting everything. Or at least, being able to move on with your life.

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    If you don't have another girl that you're interested in, be sure to spend time around friends and/or family. The worst thing you can do is be alone because then you'll have time to think about your ex and crap; and you don't want that.

    Just do things to keep your mind busy.

    Or get a dog. Best companion ever.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Azn Kenny View Post
    If you don't have another girl that you're interested in, be sure to spend time around friends and/or family. The worst thing you can do is be alone because then you'll have time to think about your ex and crap; and you don't want that.

    Just do things to keep your mind busy.

    Or get a dog. Best companion ever.


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    Very true. That's exactly what I'm trying to avoid. I don't have another girl I'm interested in because this breakup occurred fairly recently (about a week ago). Figured I'd give myself some time to recover before I jump back into the scene again. Don't wanna start talking to someone when I don't have my shit together.

    I contemplated getting a dog but I know my mom's gonna end up taking it for herself and it'll forget all about me lol.

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    Was there anything that you really enjoyed doing that she hated? If so I would recommend doing a lot of that.

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    Another woman. Obvious answer but always worked for me, lol. Flings and one nighters work great though because it keeps your confidence from dipping and your balls from turning blue.
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    Quote Originally Posted by DannyFernasty View Post
    Was there anything that you really enjoyed doing that she hated? If so I would recommend doing a lot of that.
    Can't think of anything off the top of my head. We had a lot in common so we used to do a lot together...go to comic book stores, clubbing, smoke hookah, etc. But when I say we both had a lot in common, it was both good and bad.

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    Quote Originally Posted by V8TitanPwr View Post
    Another woman. Obvious answer but always worked for me, lol.
    lol yeah I suppose when all is said and done, that might be the only option haha.

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    Previously known as Supradan22 DannyFernasty's Avatar
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    Quote Originally Posted by DERANGED View Post
    Can't think of anything off the top of my head. We had a lot in common so we used to do a lot together...go to comic book stores, clubbing, smoke hookah, etc. But when I say we both had a lot in common, it was both good and bad.
    Damn well in that case try getting some buddies together and go to the strip club. It's always a fun event after a break up. Make sure you go out of Orlando though they suck here the further down south you go the better.

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    @ Doc, yeah, you see the thing is, when a relationship ends with me, I just tie off loose ends and move on. I don't dwell on shit because I know everything happens for a reason. I guess I got caught by surprise this time. Kinda hit me unexpectedly. And the fact that my aunt got a stroke recently (she's a total health nut) just added to it. It's like great, what else can happen?

    @ Danny, yeah if I don't take a trip out of Florida come July, I may just take a road trip down south. Go to Miami, Key West, and all of that.

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    Dog/Vacation ftw.

    Cycling on Heintzelman is something that would help keep you busy, and aquariums will help stress decrease and keep you busy at the same time.
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    Exercise.

    Working out, riding bikes, going kayaking, playing tennis/golf, etc. all makes me feel good. I find that I tend to gain a little bit of weight when in relationships. Any single time is spent losing that. Plus, many of the girls, whom I have had good relationships with over the years, would exercise with me. Food for thought.
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    The quickest way to get over someone, is to get under someone else.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aloysius View Post
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    at some of these replies

    I'd say go for a roadtrip. Take a trip. Just gtfo the area that constantly reminds you of the past. If that makes sense.. Best thing I ever did was go to Cali and if I could recommend anything I'd say hit up LA and you'll forget all about whats her face.

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    exercise is also a great reliever.


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