Possible reason why men cheat???

**Taylor** · 03-07-2007, 10:19 AM

I think people cheat b/c they need more. PERIOD.

More: sex, affection, money, excitement....

If they are fulfilled in those ways, they probably wont.

**Zan** · 03-07-2007, 10:32 AM

Ive cheated before..
The only reason why i did because it was already over and i didnt know how to tell her so i just ****ed her friend when i knew when she would walk in on us...We broke up and her and her friend never spoke again...Good day for me.

**Taylor** · 03-07-2007, 10:35 AM

WTF....from a guy so wholesome that he hates makeup, you're pretty um.....yeh interesting?

**NeonX143** · 03-07-2007, 10:41 AM

I think that some people just can't stay loyal. It's probably the fact that you are going to hide it and try to get away with it for as long as you can. If you are in love with some one you should not cheat, nor think about cheating. Love>Lust

If you want to mess around, just don't get in a relationship

girls are the same way...if you can't keep your legs closed, don't hook up and try to have a commited relationship if you are going to jump on the next piece of sweet meat (for both sexes)

**Ric** · 03-07-2007, 10:43 AM

cheaters shal be shot. There is no excuse lol.. If your going to like someone else, then dump the person your with first.

**NeonX143** · 03-07-2007, 10:43 AM

Originally Posted by SoarerTT

cheaters shal be shot. There is no excuse lol.. If your going to like someone else, then dump the person your with first.

I'm with you 100%

**Tranz** · 03-07-2007, 10:49 AM

I haven't cheated on my wife but with us married guys it's simple. We want our wives to be freaky in the house etc. When, after years of trying to get your wife to do those freaky things (within reason) doesn't turn out. Then they start to look elsewhere for that excitement they aren't getting at home.

Men like the excitement of a quickie in the hallway. We want to buy you $100 worth of see-thru bra's and panties from Victoria's Secret knowing it will only be on for 30 minutes and have their wives wear it more then once a year.

Women in turn can also do the same thing when their needs aren't being met by their husband as well. So it works both ways. You really want to get it from the person you fell in love with but after a long time when it's not there you will lean towards anyone that will give you what your lacking.

**1SickZ** · 03-07-2007, 10:51 AM

Because its so easy a caveman can do it.

**Tranz** · 03-07-2007, 10:58 AM

Originally Posted by 1SickZ

Because its so easy a caveman can do it.

And thats where it all started....

**supragrl93** · 03-07-2007, 11:21 AM

I think guys, more so than girls, need variety and excitment... So I don't see as much of a big deal as some chicks do. I've been cheated on by most of my exes and it didn't really bother me and I never even yelled at them for it. Its human nature, learn to not be so jealous. It will save you from spending all your time stressing and having all those retarded trust issues people have that get you nowhere!

**Diego** · 03-07-2007, 11:46 AM

nobody is above any temptaion. how do i avoid cheating? i don't put myself in situations that will potentially lead me to unfaithful acts.

**Tranz** · 03-07-2007, 12:19 PM

Originally Posted by Diego

nobody is above any temptaion. how do i avoid cheating? i don't put myself in situations that will potentially lead me to unfaithful acts.

So, how do you feel about those companies that will allow a wife or GF to set-up their spouse or BF.

like if they know he likes blonde's, they have the company send out a blonde to a bar or club where he might be with friends and flirt with him. Then report back what he did or didn't do.

**Kevin** · 03-07-2007, 12:23 PM

I love my gf too much to hurt her in a such a stupid way.
Besides, ive never cheated and never will.

**Diego** · 03-07-2007, 12:23 PM

well funny thing. as most guys know, at least for me, when your attached to someone you attend to attract more attention for whatever reason(at least in my case). I've had a couple of ocassions where females divert their attention to me and although i might respond with a hi back or so i try to avoid conversation completely. but in any case, if the wife did that on purpose then if i do cheat she can go ahead and blame herself as well. i never said i'm perfect or am not capable of cheating, just said waht i try to do to avoid it.

**1SickZ** · 03-07-2007, 12:24 PM

Originally Posted by Tranz

So, how do you feel about those companies that will allow a wife or GF to set-up their spouse or BF.

like if they know he likes blonde's, they have the company send out a blonde to a bar or club where he might be with friends and flirt with him. Then report back what he did or didn't do.

Everyone flirts, Everyone.